I was watching the BBC documentary about Money and Wealth training seminars last night. It was carefully put together to leave the viewer in no doubt that the only people getting rich from wealth training are the people providing the training. There was lots of footage that made me squirm, of young people who had gone into debt to attend the seminars, totally ‘believed’ that they were going to get rich and yet had not made a single penny.
Clearly, this is not the only possible outcome. There are lots of people who attend such seminars and implement what they learn to get good results. At least I hope there are, although I’m not sure I actually know any personally.
The thing that really made me uncomfortable was the sight of people reciting affirmations about their ability to manage money, and in some cases about their (non-existent) wealth. This was all in the name of cultivating the right mindset.
So what’s the problem? One is that no amount of affirming something that you absolutely know to be untrue (such as “I am a millionaire”) will make it true. And the cognitive dissonance that results from such an activity might be what leads to the total belief we saw on the documentary. Total belief in something that had no evidence to support it.
Now, I’m a great believer in the power of the mind, as you know. But what creates wealth (or indeed any desired result) is not blind faith, it’s purposeful activity and making the most of opportunities. I’m all for working on your mindset, as long as it’s not the only thing you work on.
I also think it might be more honest to acknowledge, that as well as having the right information, the right mindset and the motivation to implement what you have learned there is something else that’s needed to make money. It’s the intelligence to make the right decisions.
In the anyone-can-do-it atmosphere of personal development seminars, there seems to be no account taken of the varying ability of people to assimilate complex information, keep multiple ideas in mind at once or logically predict the outcome of their actions. You may not need a string of academic qualifications to make money, but you do need intelligence in its broadest sense.
I’m beginning to think that in the pursuit of equality of opportunity we’re losing sight of the actual inequality of capability.
Time to shut up before I say something that offends someone…
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Guest blog post – written by:
Dianne Lowther
Master Trainer of NLP
Dianne Lowther is a Master Trainer of NLP and Principal of Brilliant Minds. She specialises in applications of NLP for leadership and business results.



5 Comments
Lisa Turner
on 5th Dec, 11 08:12am
What a great article Nic. I totally agree with your point about intelligence. And, as you know, I’m NO fan of affirmations
Pete Bennett
on 5th Dec, 11 08:12am
Nic, why would you want to ‘shut up before you offend anybody’? What you say is 100% true and if the truth offends people then that’s their problem, not yours. There’s a whole industry around taking peoples’ money in exchange for raising their expectations above their abilities and what can reasonably be expected. Add to that a veneer of nonsense along the lines of The so-called ‘Law’ of Attraction and blind faith in a benevolent ‘Universe’ delivered with a bit of charisma, music and clever use of group dynamics and you have a all the components required to build a highly effective money extraction machine. The problem that people who deliver the real-deal face is that the truth is a lot less comfortable and hence harder to sell. I know many extremely wealthy business people who have never been to a seminar, some of whom have very little formal education but all have worked long and hard to get where they are today and made sacrifices along the way well beyond what most people would be prepared to make. There’s a pattern there but it’s not one which lends itself to chanting whilst rubbing strangers’ backs, drinking fizzy water and eating mint imperials. Those destined to be genuinely wealthy are too busy working to attend get rich quick events.
Claire Westwood
on 5th Dec, 11 09:12am
the programme was carefully edited to remove and trace of the strategies that are also taught at these events…. don’t believe everything you see on TV….
Nicola Bird
on 5th Dec, 11 10:12am
This post was contributed to our blog by Dianne Lowther – a great, thought provoking post, Dianne – thank you!